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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Fake Virginity

Poor Egyptian women. They take so much shit from us men.

If you are an Egyptian man just try to envisage yourself with the misfortune of being born a woman... From childhood, your male dominated society will make you feel guilty and bad about yourself. You are nothing but a sex object owned by your father till he hands you over to your husband.

You marry a dude you never really loved. You married him because he is "suitable" and you have to be a virgin when you marry him. If you are not, you're screwed (or honour killed). If yu are a virgin, you're screwed just the same because you'll spend the rest of your life with him.

If you are a man you can have premarital sex... no problem at all, but if you are a woman its a different story. You are a sharmoota (whore) unless you get a hymen repair or buy a virginity faking device.

So a woman who can fake her virginity, then fake orgasms and fake faithfulness makes her husband a truly happy man living a fake life thanking god everyday for giving him a wonderful wife and wonderful kids who may not be his anyway.

To women it doesnt matter if you deceive the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. If he wants a virgin, give him a virgin.

We men think that by being dick heads we will ensure domination over women. Why do we insist on marrying virgins? Whats so great about virgins?

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1 Comments:

  • I agree with everything u have said.. As a 22 year old arab woman living in a western society i have come to realise the many short comings of our culture back home. Men only desire the so called "pure woman", the image of an un touched virgin is the only appealing thing they see in the opposite sex. While the person that she is, her various good traits and characteristics come second.
    Dont get me wrong i believe that its great to stay virgin till after marriage but what if ur marriage was arraged.. What if the person u were going to marry is a filthy man who is not only older than you but also hard to look at? What if ur family accepted him as ur future husband just to get rid of you before you get any older and no one would marry you.. Now also imagine that while ur faMily is planning the wedding on your behalf n controlling every aspect of it from where its held to what dress u wear, while all this is happening u have your own little love story with a christian man that u know ur family would never accept. A man who seems to be the perfect match, handsome, loving, accepting, and devoted to you.. And after dating him for a long tine u think to urself should i lose my virginity to thia man who truely loves me with all his heart and soul or should i be raped on my wedding night?? I say rape because thats the way i see it.. How else would u describe intercourse with a strange man that u dont want??
    So u go ahead and make love to the other man and its an amazing experience because u love him and he adores you.. U think to urself this is wrong yet its so right.. u think that The animal from my country that my family wants me to marry would have never treated me as kindly n taken his time to care for me and really make love to me.. He would have just pushed n hurt me n left me to bleed as he satisfies his little sexual urges.. So then u realise that although god will punish u for wat u have done u still feel like, to some degree, u have done the right thing for urself... That u fel in love n u folowed ur heart n ur first time was a good experience not a frightneng amd extremly painful one

    By Blogger rose0887, At 3:10 PM, September 29, 2009  

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